Inspired thoughts: Using possessions to develop healthy relationships

Possessions and money are an important part of many people’s lives. God gives them to us so that we can live, look after each other and develop healthy relationships. Now some people would argue they have worked hard for their possessions, and this maybe true but even the opportunity to work hard is a gift from God. To understand this a bit further take some time reflecting on Luke 12:15-21.

God is concerned about us developing healthy relationships so He gives us the commandment, you shall not steal. This commandment deals directly with how we treat others when it comes to their possessions and money. In short, God says the best way to treat other people’s possessions so that your relationships develop is for you to:

· respect them

·not take or keep them without them knowing or when they don’t want you to have them

·not acquire them dishonestly

·help them improve and protect their possessions and income.

As Psalm 37:21 says the wicked borrow and do not repay, but the righteous give generously and Philippians 2:4 reminds us each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.

When we see our possessions and the way we treat other people’s possessions, as tools to develop relationships, the commandment not to steal is also about using our time and our possessions to help others.

Prior to coming to Portland I was part of a congregation where some Liberian refugees joined us. Most of the refugees came to Australia with nothing more than a small suitcase, the Australian government helped them out with some basics, but also a number of people at the congregation helped them with some other goods, clothing and services to make life a little more comfortable. Over time, I noticed something wonderful happening, not only did the refugees have stuff, but as a result of the generosity of the people around them who had concern for them, good friendships developed.

Something to think about and share as a family

Have you got something you need to return?

How can you use the possessions and income you have to improve and develop relationships with others?

Is there someone you could help improve their possessions?

To go a little deeper

Read Luke 10:29-37